And that is true these days. No one says what is on their mind at all. They assume, they think, they believe – but they just don’t tell. In so many years of meeting variety humans this is the biggest human weakest I have come across.

We all are not born same and neither do we have the same upbringing. The whole point is that we’ve never been in each other’s shoes. We’re comfortable in our zone and we assume that that’s the way the world operates.

People just talk about something or someone but they don’t discuss. They keep striping down someone of their dignity, self-respect and good life just because they don’t say face front.

We pretty ladies must have faced the most of it. Though we hate being gossiped about, we do end ruining someone’s life in our words. When you’re being on someone’s “intellectual talk” platter, you wish that they’d just be bold enough and tell you what their opinion is rather than make a story with a figment of their imagination.

What I believe is that these things happen because people have just stopped telling each other in first and second person. We don’t speak to each other at all – like or dislike. We don’t compliment someone if we like their clothes or looks. We don’t tell them if we don’t like something about them. We keep it all to us. It is important that they know if they matter to you.

Well if they don’t matter, you shouldn’t bother.

I think it’s high time we started telling them.. started telling ourselves..