It has nothing to do with you being the way you are. People and the world has been engineered that way to throw stones at you.

I have had very bad experiences when people used to tell me on my face, “You’re weird!”

Honestly, I have enjoyed every bit of being weird in my life. I have often pondered, thought deeply, introspected in every manner I could: Why am I always told that I am weird? Why do I always get to hear the same blame? Is it a huge problem?

Honestly, it is not.

I remember a friend who says that in “society” people throw stones, blames and make it appear it all as your fault. Well, he did everything his parents told him but still he couldn’t be in their good books.

The world around us has thus being wired to think in the same conventional way. If you are not in the sync then you are an outcast with all blames and all faults of your own.

I ask you “Who defines the conventions? Humans like us” Well… It can be changed back.

Not many people realize that an entire lifetime passes by as they try to blend in. They try to be part of the flow and though their heart and mind is not there – they go to every length to be the way everybody else is. It is not necessary and definitely not compulsory that you form the club that has bequeathed over the years. If you ever worry being different, then you will be worried all your life, for essentially 2 reasons – 1. Worried because you don’t fit in and you are straining yourself hard to blend. 2. Worried that if you indeed dare to be different, you are out of business.

Now, what is such a life! Useless in anyway. Pick one way that you like and you are for sure going to be happy even if not successful in what you do.

You see there is not need to carry the faults, the weight, the pressure, the torture that has been part of the mankind forever. It is good that you do carry them, but it is not needed. What you do, what you start something fresh is the new legacy that you design for the upcoming club to follow or unfollow for that matter – how does that matter! What matters is that you did what you always wanted to and even though you have someone to continue the legacy or no; its okay. You did it…. Period.